2 years ago I hated myself.
No literally…I let life get in my head and I told myself I wasn’t good enough but at the same time I got mad when people treated me like shit. Everyday I would let myself feel worthless yet feel upset when someone showed me what I meant to them.
WHY is it so hard for us women to know in our hearts what we deserve and settle for nothing less than that? Why are we so damn hard on ourselves? Why do we claim that “NO ONE will speak to us that way” yet we turn right around and speak to ourselves like we’re less than? It’s a vicious cycle we get into and we’re the only ones that can get ourselves out.
How many times are you going to tell others that you love them before you tell yourself that you LOVE YOU?
How many others will you compare yourself to day in and day out before you realize that you’re one of a kind?
How many tears will you shed over people that tell you “NO” before you realize that N.O stands for “next opportunity“?
How many years are you going to stay with someone that doesn’t deserve you because you tell yourself YOU can’t do any better?
How many miracles are you going to expect from the universe before you get up and own your place in this world and fight like hell for everything that you want?
You see, 2 years ago I hated myself.
But today, I love myself enough to know what I deserve and be willing to accept nothing less.
How can you change your mindset and free yourself from your self inflicted limits?