Welcome to DAY THREE! WOOOOOO- this is a HUGE part of loving yourself and it also happens to be the most difficult step in my opinion! It’s always difficult to write someone off or leave someone behind that isn’t serving you well especially if they’re someone you’ve known for a long time or even family.
We all have people in our lives that are a negative cloud hanging over our heads. Maybe they complain about their lives all the time but won’t change anything. Maybe they talk shit about everyone around they see, even strangers. maybe they talk down on themselves constantly. Do you know people that are flakes or unreliable, do they always point out things you’re doing incorrectly?
NEGATIVITY BREEDS NEGATIVITY. It’s nearly impossible for you to live a positive life if those that are closest to you lead a negative one. Negativity is as contagious as the flu, I promise you. I’ve had so many people in my life that don’t add any value, they just take up my time and my thoughts and my power. This is important- this step/day is VITAL and I mean absolutely vital to living your best life. We all have these people around us, it’s not our responsibility to change their thoughts or behaviors, it’s our responsibility to protect ourselves against it all!
TO DO: VERY VERY IMPORTANT!!!
Today’s to:do is a huge one. It’s SUPER important (have I mentioned this?) and it’s so incredibly emotional to come to terms with the reality of it.
Get a piece of paper and fold it in half (kind of like day 1) On the left, create a list of people who don’t serve you, dig deep, this can include friends, acquaintances, family, coworkers, classmates…ANYONE around you that effects you in a negative way.
On the right side write down WHAT is is specifically that they do or say that affects YOU in a negative way. Once your list is complete go from the top and imagine your life without this person in it. Do you feel free? Do you feel positive? Do you feel relieved? This is the perfect way to get you thinking about the WHO in your life. These people are ENERGY suckers and you cannot move on with them still present.
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